Happiness in Acceptance and Perspective

Rafael A. George Duval
2 min read6 days ago

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The most significant principle in Stoicism is to focus on the things we can control and accept the things that are beyond our power to change.

We should take what is beyond our capacity, as it is not essential for our well-being. Instead, we should focus on responding to external circumstances crucial for our growth and happiness.

As we become wiser, we understand that changing ourselves is more important than trying to change the world.

Like a path that appears as we walk, what we seek also seeks us.

When we make decisions, we cannot control the consequences that follow. Therefore, ensuring that we are confident in our choices is crucial.

Life is full of surprises, and it is crucial to cherish every moment.

By acknowledging the limitations of reality, we can feel less restricted.

Accepting the inevitability of death can help us value the present moment even more.

Although our existence may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things, it is vital to make the most of our limited time. The universe does not impose any expectations on how we spend our time.

You do not have control over your situation, but you can choose how you view it. The only thing you can control is your perspective.

Focus on the variables that you can change.

As thoughtful individuals, it is natural to consider the negative possibilities that may arise in life. However, it is essential to appreciate what we already have in order to experience true happiness.

Wanting more without feeling content can lead to negative consequences due to hedonic adaptation. We become accustomed to what we have and take it for granted, which leads to boredom and a desire for more.

Recognizing the impermanence of everything in the world and acknowledging that every moment may be our last can help us fully appreciate and savor each experience.

We can achieve genuine contentment and happiness by embracing the present moment and finding joy in what we have.

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Rafael A. George Duval

✍🏼 Indie writer, chief editor of https://snippetsoftext.substack.com/ | 💻 Software Engineer | 📊 Tech Leadership