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Cultivating Habits for Personal and Interpersonal Development
To become better people, we need to develop habits that foster growth.
Being purposeful in our lives is what creates peace of mind. This translates into being intentional about what we do every day. When we stop obsessing over everything, we often find that things work out for the better.
If we fear something, it may indicate that we lack knowledge or understanding.
It is essential to comprehend the situation before jumping to conclusions. At times, anxiety can lead to anger and cause harm to perceived threats. Taking responsibility is crucial for embracing reality.
We need to acknowledge and accept the reality of any situation, even if it is not in our favor or unclear.
We cannot control or manipulate what is happening, so it is an opportunity to learn and develop. Not the situations that cause us distress but our interpretation of them. Due to our biases and limited perceptions, it is often challenging to interpret. This can be unfair to others involved, and we should avoid it.
Epictetus once said, “Men are not disturbed by things, but by the views which they take of them.”
Change is a natural part of life; we must learn…